VIEW OF HUMAN NATURE
The central focus of 3v therapy is the essence and importance of a individual. 3v therapy is compose of three significant rules. 1st V is value yourself. of course you must love yourself more than anything else in this world. our life is a great gift from god that e must be taken care of, treasure it as long as we can. Do not let others be the reason of your misery, if they did something wrong that makes you feel hurt, Do not take it until the last breath of your life learn how to forgive and forget and as times go by acceptance come. after all you will be the one to suffer if you become bitter and always think of revenge. if you do that you will not enjoy the beauty of life.
The 2nd V is value other people. love your family, your friends and classmates and all people surrounds you. because they the shoulder that you can lean on in good or bad times.
The 3rd V. value your environment. our environment speaks of our personality therefore if we have love and concern for our environment, it also means that we are concern for ourselves , we love ourself.
These 3v make us a better individual. by having these we can be capable enough on solving any problems because we are guided of a very strong principle.
DEVELOPMENT OF MALADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR
3v therapist believe that if we fail to live in a state of awareness of our being, even at the risk of bitterness and anxiety, we will inevitably collapse into maladaptive behavior. because we are not capable of confronting the person who hurt us, we sometimes blame ourselves why such things happened. when this occur the result is maladaptive behavior.
GOALS OF THE THERAPY
The aim of 3v therapy is to value and be valued. and to stimulate the clients willingness to work in bitterness and in pain, to offer and give help and to develop a sense of independence.
FUNCTION OF THE THERAPIST
Since 3v therapist role rooted in being. "to value and be valued". the major task of the therapist is to facilitate and help the client to develop a sense of valuing and provide a climate of safety and trust, which will let the client to be encourage and re-integrate their self-actualizing and self-valuing process.
METHODS AND TECHNIQUES
Confontation of life issues- let the client determine and fight for dependence versus independence, rationality versus irrationality, freedom versus determinism, bitterness versus anger, and forgetting versus acceptance. knowing that the clients who avoid these issues may eventually collapse into self-pittying. for this reason, the most important attribute that a therapist can bring to his or her client is a excellent philosophy in life.
Concentrating- is finding the difference between successful and failure. the result or outcome is not pertaining to the therapist but what is achieved by the client. concentrating is not facing painful emotions nor is it an intellectual or analytical process. when you learn how to concentrate you will discover the body finding its own to solve all the problems encountered.
